Trying Bondage for the First Time
If you're new to bondage wear and bondage toys, it's important to take things slow and start small. While the idea of being tied up might sound thrilling, remember that everyone's body is different and what feels good for one person might not feel good for another.
Before jumping into the deep end, try experimenting with some basic cuffs and gags to get a feel for how your body responds to being restrained. Although many people new to UK bondage sex gear will want to immediately look at something like Fifty Shades of Grey You Are Mine Metal Handcuffs, it’s better to start with softer wrist restraints when you aren’t used to the feeling. The S&M Shadow Fur Handcuffs may look intimidating, but they’re actually perfect for couples new to bedroom bondage.
Before starting any BDSM play, make sure to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about what you're comfortable with and what you're not. Communication and consent are key, after all.
How to Be Safe When Using Bondage Gear
While bondage can be an incredibly exciting and fulfilling experience, you must prioritise safety above all else. Always make sure to use high-quality gear that's been specifically designed for BDSM play.
Cheap, flimsy restraints can easily break or cause injury, so invest in quality cuffs, ropes, and other restraints that are built to last. It’s crucial that you never leave your partner unattended while they're restrained, and always have a pair of safety scissors nearby in case of emergency.
Best Bondage Gear for First Timers
For those just starting out with BDSM, we recommend starting with some basic cuffs and gags. Our beginner-friendly handcuffs and ankle cuffs (like our Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You Ankle Cuffs) are perfect for those looking to experiment with light BDSM play, while a product like the Fifty Shades Freed Cherished Collection Leather Ball Gag is great for adding an extra layer of excitement to your play.
If you're looking to take things to the next level, consider trying out some more advanced restraints like spreader bars, hogties, and suspension cuffs. Just remember to always listen to your body and communicate openly with your partner to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience. It might be worth seeking further advice from the BDSM community if you’re starting to get extra spicy in the bedroom.
Buy UK Bondage Equipment
At Pure Pleasure, we believe that exploring your sexuality should be a fun, exciting, and fulfilling experience. BDSM isn’t just about tying each other up and taking control, it’s about letting your partner fulfil your needs and reciprocating that.
To that end, a BDSM session may also include other adult sex toys, such as vibrators and anal toys. Shop our selection of bondage gear today and start exploring the world of BDSM and bondage equipment.
Bondage Toys FAQs
If you’re looking for clothing and lingerie rather than trying to buy bondage equipment, you might be better served looking at fetish lingerie. BDSM clothing can be as simple as a latex dress or as complex as a full-body harness set. But, for paddles, restraints, gags, and more, you can shop right here at Pure Pleasure.
Provided that all involved parties are consenting adults that have done their research beforehand, there’s no reason that your bedroom bondage session wouldn’t be safe. Be sure to talk about likes and dislikes, safewords, and talk to the BDSM community for advice before you get started.
Absolutely! Don’t be put off by all the negative press that surrounds the BDSM world. Any sex toys that you currently have will be perfect for your new bedroom adventure and their familiarity will ensure that you have a good time while exploring. When you’re ready to add a new, more bondage-focused toy to your secret draw, our collection is waiting for you.